An observation to point out - If this is the case then men should have a library list of requirements that women should meet... The same as it's been for when men courted women, there were a set of requirements a guy had to meet before being eligible for dating or marriage etc the woman could say Yay or Nay (for the most part of it depending on circumstances etc)

As far as I've observed that doesn't appear to be the case... Men still court women.

Unless I'm misinterpreting your meaning of "women are courting men? "