I've been saying for years that if you ladies actually communicated in the bedroom, instead of just waiting to be asked you'll get more pleasure...

Alas women don't want to... why because it's a turn off for most women to have to tell a guy. They'll see him as incompetent at sex.

I know this from personal experiences. Having asked women how they want to be touched, what spot turns her on the most, how she likes her pussy to be licked etc when I first experienced sex to even now when I'm older, they get turned off having to tell a man.

Us men have to explore your bodies to learn what makes you tick, sure there's universal arousal spots on women that'll make ya'll moan, then there's also individual arousal spots that's unique to each lady. Yes ya'll moan "right there or don't stop etc", during sex, very few women will openly tell a man what she likes before having sex.

Very rarely will a woman openly tell a man.

So asking men to "ask more" is hypocritical when you ladies should be more open to telling us especially if a guy does something you don't like. Tell him.

Who cares about a man's ego. Fuck it'll make him a better lover in the future if you do tell him how to do it correctly for you.