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No one cares!
Face it no one actually cares about you as much as they claim they do. If you died today in about 6–12 months time they’ll have moved on for the most part. Sure they’ll remember you once a year, maybe twice a year even. The brutal reality is you’ll be a memory, nothing more than the passing whisps of fog.
People only use people to satisfy their needs. This is something people wish to ignore, it is a simple fact of reality. Your with your friends, girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband etc because they give you something you feel you lack within yourself… this applies to them as well, they are with you because they get something from you. When you die, they move, just as you move on if they die.
If this wasn’t the case then no one would date after a first relationship ends or friendships fall apart… yet we do.
This is freeing in a way, it gives you the ability to say whatever you want, how you want. You can be who you want, in the way you want. You can be everything or a shadow.
Tell the pushy manager, they’re an asshole
Tell that friend that they’re such a drain
Tell yourself what you actually think/feel
People only care about their reactions to what you say!
I’ll say it again.
People only care about their reactions to what you say!
Remeber you and others always use the phrase “You made me feel”… This is bullshit. You didn’t make them feel anything and they…